The sermon title may be more exciting than the sermon! When we discuss issues related to sex in the Presbyterian church, we generally are discussing the issue of gay and lesbian marriage and the ordination of gays and lesbians. In recent years, we have also spent time discussing the definition of marriage, but again the issue is typically focused on how to deal with same-sex couples. As I envision the issues related to sex that Christians have to deal with in the 21st century, I believe that our focus on gay/lesbian issues keeps us from dealing with issues that impact more of our lives. How are we addressing Internet pornography and its rampant use? How do we speak about pre-marital sex and/or abstinence? What are we to make of divorce rates that are higher among Christians than non-Christians in the United States? As I ponder those issues, I am struck that our first reaction is to set standards and draw lines in the sand. I certainly feel that need when thinking about my daughters dating! Is it possible to re-frame our responses by focusing on right relationship and tying our sexual lives to our lives of discipleship? As I write that, I find myself saying, "Really. Richard do you really think that talking about discipleship will make an impression when faced with sexual desires?" Perhaps not, but how else can we connect our sexual lives with the grace and love of God and our growing into new creations?
Love for you send me the answer by Saturday night!
peace,
Richard
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Your sermon reminded me and I'm sure others that there are issues beyond just the gay and lesbian relationships that are so prevalent today. I am glad that there were young and old(er) alike there to hear it.
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